CBT for Fear of Abandonment & People leaving you

Fear of abandonment is the overwhelming worry that people close to you will leave.

Do you feel as if eventually everyone will abandon you?

I am Aman Varma - Counseling Psychologist. At the end of this course you will be free from this fear!

Fear of abandonment may affect how you experience relationships, but understanding where it comes from could be the key to fulfilling connections. In this course, you will learn how to overcome this fear of abandonment and permanently stop it from negatively affecting you relationships.

Things will be going along smoothly, and all of a sudden, you feel inundated with insecurity and dread that your partner will distance themselves, ignore, or leave you.

Right at the beginning you might start talking about separation out of the blue. This could hurt your relationship as the other person might feel as if you don't trust them.

Such tiny behaviors & beliefs eventually lead to self-fulfilling prophecy - abandonment!

Can you relate to some of these symptoms?

Attach quickly—even to unavailable partners or relationships

Have difficulty experiencing emotional intimacy

Feel insecure and unworthy of love

Find it hard to trust people

Are often jealous of everyone you meet

Experience intense feelings of separation anxiety

Tend to overthink things and work hard to figure out hidden meanings

Are hypersensitive to criticism

Contain repressed anger and control issues

Engage in self-blame frequently

There are effective ways for you to develop more security within yourself and overcome your fear of abandonment. You can start by understanding where this fear comes from. How and why does it develop? How does it affect you in your current life? What are strategies for dealing with the anxiety that arises? How can you develop more resilience and experience less fear around relationships?

Maybe in your past everyone you loved got separated from you. This might make you feel unimportant and unloved. Therefore you may ask yourself, am I not lovable? Is there anything wrong with me? Why does everyone I love leave me?

You put every effort to not upset them and try to be perfect. You take all responsibility. Maybe you even try to impress or please them. But eventually they leave you. Why is this happening? This is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

In this CBT for Abandonment course, I will guide you to break this pattern, anxiety & unhelpful beliefs you have.

After the course you will once again feel free from this fear, develop trust & loving relationships and feel emotionally fulfilled.